ROMANS 8:5-6
5 Those who live as their human nature tells them to, have their minds controlled by what human nature wants. Those who live as the Spirit tells them to, have their minds controlled by what the Spirit wants. 6 To be controlled by human nature results in death; to be controlled by the Spirit results in life and peace.
It’s human nature to want to be in control of our lives, but we need the Holy Spirit’s help to find real life and peace.